Learning to share…

Children learn by watching. When you model turn-taking at home, you show them how sharing works. Talking about sharing, praising good moments, and playing games that involve turn-taking all help build this important skill.

Before playdates or starting childcare, talk to your child about sharing. Encourage them to choose a few toys to share, while letting them keep a few special ones aside. This helps avoid conflict and supports emotional development.

If Your Child Struggles with Sharing

If your child finds sharing difficult, stay close during play and gently guide their behaviour. Praise any effort they make—this builds confidence. Playdates are great chances for learning to share, even when it’s not easy.

For children over 3, you can start introducing simple consequences, like taking away a toy for a short time if it’s not being shared. Give them another go—practice helps!

Toddlers and Sharing

Toddlers (around age 2) are just beginning to understand their emotions. Learning to share at this stage takes time and patience. Instead of using consequences, guide and encourage them.

Preschoolers and Sharing

By 3 years, many children start understanding turn-taking. Activities like playing dress-ups or drawing together are great for practising sharing. Talk about fairness and how others feel to build empathy and awareness.

Being realistic about your child’s stage of development is key. Most young children are still learning, and learning to share is a process, not an instant skill.

For more tips, visit https://raisingchildren.net.au/ – Australia’s trusted parenting website.

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